| Being used to honesty is pretty much dangerous when at one point, lies and betrayals transpire. It’s true that keeping an honest relationship with family, friends or a special someone is healthy. It is important to value every kind of relationship that one has. When one shows something good, then goodness also comes right back... well not all the time though. Trust is very important. When one has all the reasons not to doubt about the motives of another, then it won’t be hard for the other person to trust. However, it is very idealistic to believe that all the relationships (the closest ones) that one has is real. Only fools believe in this very idealistic kind of relationship. But how can we blame these fools when all their lives they haven’t been deceived? Boyfriend-girlfriend relationship... almost perfect. Friends... very tight, confrontational in a very smooth way. Family... well, they’re family. Until that very fateful day when this fool experiences being lied on. 
It’s very difficult for one person to accept that betrayal could happen to him when one wasn’t able to experience it. It’s like one wakes up from a very good dream. This is the reality that one has to deal with now. What’s even more dangerous is when this person couldn’t face the reality that this could possibly happen to him. As a result, one engages to something that he already knows ain’t real. And so the lies and betrayals happen with his consent. The lies and betrayals are now happening right before his eyes. Maybe, one thinks that it would be better to know that things now ain’t real... that this is a lie. And this might go on and on. No lessons learned, just grudge.   | 
